What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 08:45
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
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88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
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9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
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9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Have you ever accidentally found out that you were about to be fired?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
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85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
What does the Bible say about the Antichrist? How will we know when he arrives on the scene?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
What have I done wrong? How can I start over?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
*** Random Questions ***
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
52~ What are your hobbies?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
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4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
What is your favorite position? Why?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Family Relation Age Play
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
39~ What are your love languages?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Would you read them together?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Please share Did you stop?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
How old are you? Male or Female?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Nothing too Serious
29- How superstitious are you?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
*** Questions About Me ***
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Any that are a turn off?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
If yes, what?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
The Ice Breaker Questions
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?